Lady Lucinda

Playful Femme Fatale


Age: 39

Favourite activities in a session:

  • Striptease and Denial
  • Squirting and Wet Games
  • Tights and High Heels
  • Sissy Play/ Education at the School of Sluts
  • Anal training and Prostate Massage

Current Favourite Toy:
My weapon of mass seduction.  I also enjoy the power I feel when wearing my strapon and have my Sub waiting nervously with anticipation.  Using something as feminine as a pair of High Heel shoes, Stockings and lace panties as a tool to apply pressure, control, gag and restrain. Training my Subs how to receive and love the sting of my whip, flogger or hand.

What kind of dominatrix are you? What makes you special?
I have spent many years studying and teaching sexual liberation through striptease and turning it into an art form where I am the artist and you, my darling, are the canvas.  As a part of my sensual seduction, I like to dance and perform for you, but don’t be fooled, for I am not the object in this little game.  Like a true Femme Fatale, you will be under my spell as I take my time to study you like a lioness watching her prey before she makes a kill.  I will observe how your body moves under my softest touch. Listen to the sounds that escape your mouth when you are on the receiving end of my firm hand. I will scan my eyes over every inch of your body, feel your energy, and then before I make my move I will look deeply into your eyes to get a glimpse of who you really are, and what you really want.  Your kinks and secret pleasures are my curiosity, and my curiosity is your key to freedom. All you have to do is let me in, and I will take you by the collar and lead you to a place where time stands still and the outside world dissolves into nothing.  

Here are some beautiful words a client used to describe me that warm my black heart:

“From the moment you laid hands on me, it somehow felt like love at first touch to me. From your motherly warmth and tender compassion that makes me want to lay my head on your lap and simply be held by you, to the strict teacher-like lady, with the most erotic accent I’ve ever heard, by whose whip and words I’m being punished when disobedient. From the diva-like bitch who shamelessly forces me to fulfil her most forbidden desires, to the divine Queen of Light whose radiance I worship like a mirror that reflects the true nature of my being”.

What is dominance/submission for you?
With great power comes great responsibility.  Trust and communication are the backbone to all of my Domme/Sub sessions.  My work as a Domina is about creating a safe space where my Subs feel comfortable enough to reveal themselves to me without any inhibitions or shame and feel liberated by doing so.  Once this trust is established, we are able to dance in the shadows fuelled by raw, authentic animalistic lust.  Which allows both Domina and Submissive to access those euphoric pure endorphins that make your heart race and head spin. Then when it is time, I will gently guide us back down to earth, basking in the afterglow and care of our intense and intimate experience.

What do you love about BDSM?
I love how it teaches us to cut out the bullshit and get straight to the point!  Good BDSM teaches us how to push past shame and toxic forms of communication in order to share our true desires and boundaries.  Allowing ourselves to be vulnerable and communicate openly is about connection not only to our play partners but also to ourselves.   

If you want to see me smile and the flames flickering in my eyes with excitement, then let's plan a scene and explore the depth of pure escapism through role-play. I have a vast range of incredible costumes for almost any theme and mood you can think of.

How did you begin with this profession / what has changed since then?
I have always been the type of woman that is too much for this world. Men were often intimidated by my power, which I used to think was a hindrance. But the moment I stepped into my Domina shoes and discovered that there is a world which celebrates and worships my power instead of fearing it, I was hooked. Being able to live out the full extent of my feminine strength is a huge turn on for me, and the adrenalin rush I get during a good session is my favourite kind of drug.

I love how this profession harmoniously brings together many of the skills I have been developing in other professions and different parts of my life.  For example, live performance,  Burlesque striptease, costume design, event production, life coach, public speaker, sex-positive-feminism and polyamory.  Are all the ingredients that come together to make me the Mistress I am today and allow me to continue on my creative path exploring what it means to be a powerful, confident and sexual woman in this world.